I am likely to be facing a cystectomy in the coming weeks. I've been reading here and elsewhere a few of the threads, but I have questions about certain details that I'm not seeing online. Foremost, is it standard procedure for the Dr or hospital to counsel patients prior to making that decision, or does everyone have to do their own research?? Several specific questions come to mind: (1) do you somehow get accustomed to sleeping with a hose tangled around your legs? (2) Are certain sleeping positions not permitted? (3) Do bags come in different sizes and shapes to fit the preference of the user -- that is, will I be able to wear jeans or slacks (with or without a belt)? Does the seatbelt in my car run directly over the bag? Thanks for any help!