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Frustrated

I feel angry with everything and everyone. No patience and very weepy. A sick feeling and find it hard to eat.

  1. hi there. Sorry to hear you are feeling like that. I am glad you reached out. Bladder Cancer is a tough journey and it can be overwhelming. Are you undergoing treatment currently? That can affect appetite. It’s natural to be angry. I had periods I felt like that too. You are not alone. We are here to support you. Laura, Moderator, BladderCancer.net

    1. - I am sorry to hear that. How is your husband doing after the treatments? Have you had any updates to things concerning the thick bladder wall? Wishing you both good news. Keep us updated as we are here to support you both. Linda Urbanski ( moderator, Bladdercancer.net team member)

      1. After 6 BCG treatments it did not work so having to have my bladder x prostate out. First i have to have a CT scan with contrast to see if the cancer has spread. If it has there will be no op and they have given me a year to live. I can not have any other treatment as i had radio therapy 20 years ago for prostate cancer which got rid of it. So it is down to the CT scan know . Thank you for careing
        Regards Ronnie

        1. @CommunityMember13 - I hope that you find that the cancer has not spread. This is a difficult cancer to deal with and I hope that you have good news and can have RC soon if that is the best options for you. We are always here for you so please reach out anytime. Linda Urbanski ( moderator, Bladdercancer.net team member)

        2. I really do know how you are feeling. I was almost in that position 5 years ago. I had to have a PET scan to confirm it hadn’t spread. If it had, they wouldn’t do the op to remove the tumor, my bladder and my surrounding organs. I still remember the feeling as I waited for the results. I am wishing you the best and hoping 5 years from now you too are talking about it all in the past. Keeping everything crossed for you. Le us know how you get on. Laura, Moderator, BladderCancer.net

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