Bladder Cancer and PregnancyBladder cancer is more common in men than in women. In women, it usually impacts those who have never had children and those in early menopause. However, it does sometimes...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
Two Years Post-Cystectomy: 5 Things I Wish I Had KnownWell, it's coming to that time of year again for me...the annual checkup! This will be my second checkup since I had my bladder removed in 2017. As the time...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
Cereal for DinnerTelling our kids about cancer and surgery was not an easy task. Thankfully, they responded a lot better than we thought they would. Illustrations by Lucius Wisniewski for this comic...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Bladder Cancer Made Me a Cry-BabyTrust me. This isn’t going where you think it is. I was a 53-year-old man who never cried. Well, maybe at the end of Old Yeller or Planes, Trains and...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Bladder Cancer and a “Great Attitude”How many times have you heard someone say “you’ll beat cancer because you have a great attitude?” On its face, this sounds upbeat, hopeful, and encouraging. What could be wrong...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Frequent Urinary Tract InfectionsIn January, I was admitted to ICU with sepsis. It came from a urinary tract infection. It was the first one I had ever had in my life, so I didn't...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Living with an Incurable CancerFor those of you who don't know me, Hello, my name is Anita and in 2016, I had the worst news ever. I was diagnosed with a neuroendocrine, small cell bladder...Reactions0reactionsComments4 comments
Investigating Possible Causes of Fatigue for Cancer PatientsAs a person who is in remission from bladder cancer, I find that even now two years later I can still suffer from quite severe fatigue. I also seem to...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Cancer with an Anxiety DisorderGetting a cancer diagnosis is never easy. But when you have cancer and an anxiety disorder, you tend to jump to the worst possible conclusions. Illustrations by Lucius Wisniewski for...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Caregiving with a "C"Caregivers are starting to get more attention—in the press, in research, and in discussions about healthcare and illness. And I am both happy and relieved to see this. What I...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Too Much and Not Enough HelpWe had just settled into the hospital room when the phone rang. I answered it. “Is this Ms. Khoshroo?” a perky female voice asked. “Yes,” I said, while mentally calculating...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
More Lessons I Have LearnedSee Part 1: Lessons I Have Learned to read about some more of the takeaways Anita shares from her experiences with bladder cancer. There are many things people will say...Reactions0reactionsComments8 comments
The Pros and Cons of the CystectomyYou hear the news and it feels so black and white. When doctors tell you it’s time to remove your bladder, it’s hard not to be afraid. Losing an organ...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Five Helpful Tips for CaregiversReceiving a diagnosis of bladder cancer can be a life-altering experience, not only for the person diagnosed but also for the spouse, child, parent or friend who becomes the person’s...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Bladder Cancer Anxieties: Financial StressIn this series, we discuss causes of anxiety for those facing a physical illness like bladder cancer and its side effects. Phrases in quotes are the words of our community...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Changes Post-Operation with a NeobladderYou came through surgery okay. Your recovery has been smooth, no major complications. You’re back to your daily routine, working, teaching, taking care of the kids or enjoying your retirement...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
Superwoman! I Feel GOOD!It has been around four weeks (this is the 4th week, although it feels longer) since I addressed my diet and upped the physical exercise. I think, overall, it is...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Let’s Talk About SexLet’s talk about sex. That’s right, sex. Before my bladder surgery, one of the biggest fears I had was that I would emerge an old man. I was 66 years...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
How Anxiety Affects the Bladder Cancer CommunityThe effects of cancer extend so much further than just the body. This disease can wreak absolute havoc on mental wellbeing. Anxiety, especially the nerves that arise prior to annual...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
The Mediterranean Diet: What is It & Will It Help Me? The Mediterranean diet has all the basic components of "healthy eating." It even allows for the odd cheeky glass of red wine, so what's not to like? If like...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments