Bladder Cancer

On Oct 28, 2023, I noticed some blood while urinating. I went in, had a CT Scan, and found out I had a tumor. I had it removed on Jan 8, 2024, and a cystectomy was done on May 8. One clear scan since then, I am only 45. It has been a rough journey, especially since they also removed my prostate. Does anyone have advice?