I met with my oncology urologist today and he surprised me by asking if I'd considered a neobladder instead of an external bag. I know what that is, but I've not done any research to compare the two. I'm sure each has pros and cons, but I really need to hear from anyone who HAS a neobladder or opted NOT to go that route. Surgery is set for May 25, so I have a few weeks to decide. Neo is clearly less impact to daily life, but the Dr warned me that quite a few patients find they need to self-cath every day (which makes me a bit nervous).